Temples & Customs: A Guide to Showing Respect
How to dress, behave and fully appreciate Thai temples. The cultural codes to know before you go.
Temples (the "wats") are the spiritual heart of Thailand. Entering them while following a few simple rules is not only a sign of respect, it is also what turns a tourist visit into a real moment of connection. Here is what matters.
What to wear: shoulders and knees covered
The basic rule, valid for everyone: shoulders and knees covered, for men and women alike. Avoid tank tops, short shorts and see-through clothing. Keep a light scarf in your bag: it is handy for covering up quickly, and useful against the sun.
A tip from the ground
Some major temples (such as the Grand Palace in Bangkok) are very strict and refuse entry if your outfit is not appropriate. It is better to plan ahead than to be turned away at the gate.
Feet and head: two strong symbols
In Thailand, the feet are considered the lowest part of the body, both literally and figuratively. You never point your feet at a statue of the Buddha or at another person, and you don't sit with your legs stretched towards the altar (sit with your legs folded to one side instead). By contrast, the head is sacred: you don't touch anyone else's head, even a child's.
Taking your shoes off
You remove your shoes before entering the temple buildings. You will see the piles of sandals at the entrance: do as everyone does. Wear shoes that are easy to slip off, you will thank me.
How to behave
- Speak softly and silence your phone
- Ask before photographing a monk or a ceremony
- Women should not touch a monk or hand him an object directly
- Walk around worshippers who are praying rather than passing in front of them
The "wai", the Thai greeting
Hands pressed together at chest height and a slight bow of the head: this is the wai, the traditional greeting. As a visitor you don't have to start it, but answering with a smile and a light wai is always appreciated.
Respecting these customs is not a constraint: it is the finest way in to Thai culture and the warmth of its people.
Beyond the temples
These principles of respect apply everywhere: keeping calm (losing your temper in public makes you "lose face" and never helps), taking your shoes off when you enter someone's home, and always a smile. Thailand is the "land of smiles", and it is contagious.
Want a trip that goes beyond the postcards? I always slip these cultural keys into my travel books, so that you feel at ease wherever you go.
